In the case of a divorce, the children usually stay with their mother as a priority. Although in some cases, it really should be the other way around. I don’t understand why people forget the father’s role in his child’s life if the decree is only the mother and, even better, the grandmother. But not a father.
My story is evidence of the fact that moms are different too.
In the case of Nancy and Andrew, both 27 years old and 31 years old, they had a child, three-year-old Alex. The couple thought for a long time about what to do. Nancy wanted to work, but her husband insisted she takes care of the child.
In the meantime, quarantine was declared in the world. So there would be a possibility that Nancy could work remotely. But then, it all worked out for the better, at least for Nancy.
The girl liked this option because she was pretty cold toward her son and very concerned about her career. When Nancy sat down in front of the computer, she became indifferent to her world.
One day, a terrible accident happened. The boy was already running around the apartment, although he still had trouble coordinating his movements well. Nancy focused on other tasks and ignored her child.
The boy just ran into the kitchen and turned over a pot of water on the stove. All of this has made the boy quite frightened. Nancy has been scared, too, as well. The boy and his mother were afraid, but Andrew, the father, came to see what was happening. Andrew was very angry with his wife and forbade her from doing several things simultaneously.
As a result, she took good care of the child and was even afraid of being distracted. This case taught her a great deal.
After the divorce, my brother, for instance, took the children with him. He owns a mansion where he lives with a 13-year-old girl and a 7-year-old boy. They are pleased there.
In the meantime, his wife handled her personal life. They separated after a few years, and Valerie spent time on business trips abroad with a Turkish lover she had an affair with. It turned out that she was living in Turkey with her Turkish lover. So, she was planning to return to her family after that. It was good that he documented this on camera while they were at the beach.
As you know, my brother did not hesitate to file for divorce. Several witnesses were interviewed. They stated that most of the children were taken care of by their fathers, and their mothers did not even show any interest in them. The mother did not even attend the parent-teacher conferences at the school.
Now, she seems to be uninterested even in her children’s lives. In recent years, she has only visited them on their birthdays. She can often pick up their children on other holidays as well. About once a week, the woman calls them. But this is less frequent now.
In my opinion, this is what mothers sometimes do. That is why I believe we should not praise women who have given birth. Because giving birth does not automatically make you a mother. There’s still a lot of work to raise a child and share their love, care, and concern.
I wonder if you know true fathers who care for their children regardless of the situation? Would you know any mothers who are bad parents?